WARNING WARNING
This entry is bound to find new heights of unpopularity among my fellow teachers!!!
What is the purpose of homework? My son, M, HATES homework, and I mean with a T Total Passion-- Hate, loathes, abhors homework. We were doing homework, with the normal battle - crying and gnashing of teeth and all other forms of mayhem, when I had a moment (if you haven't realized yet, that happens a lot).
Let me back up a couple posts, around my second post I had had a moment and decided that I was going to concentrate my doctorate in special education. I'm not even sure why I decided that. Maybe I was experiencing a "my last books of my masters degree have arrived and I'm deliriously excited" high, or some other sort of nonsense, but that desire to go into special ed lasted about 2 days. But then what am I going to do? What will my concentration be? I wore my hubby out talking about it (I think he finally just stopped listening, and started tuning me out- see, he knows me well enough to know that if I talk about something long enough, it will eventually sort itself out in my brain, and he will never have to remember all the stops along the way. He knew what I would decide, but he also knew that this sorting out process was essential to my decision making).
So back to 4 days ago, doing homework with M and trying to see through all the tears (his and mine) what he was actually getting out of this. I mean what was the purpose? He wasn't learning anything, he wasn't going to obtain any of this info. It was at this point, nothing but a hassle (we worked on homework for 2 hours that night). So, as a mom and a teacher, I started raking my brian to decide how I feel about this.
I came to the following conclusions:
1. One of my educational passion, strong stances, is that a child who has not only a strong support system in the school/classroom but also a strong support system in the home, is more likely to find academic success that leads to the building of strong citizens. (I am not naive enough to think that this is possible for every students, the students who do not have that support at home, need to be with a teacher/school who is willing to go above and beyond to offer extra support). Many teachers, myself included, feel that homework is an effective way for parents to be involved in the child's education. I agree on some level with that.
2. Some students need extra work outside of the classroom to help them grasp a concept (this could be given on an as needed basis).
3. Children are in the classroom 7 hours a day. To require them to come home and sit at a table and work more math problems or write spelling words, etc for another hour- 2 hours is just plain and simple too much to ask. (reading at home, in my opinion, is another story)
4. I believe in having a "No Homework Policy" (except for the occasion that extra work is needed to grasp a concept- as needed basis).
5. My doctorate concentration is going to be Curriculum, Instruction, and Assessment. Not because I want to take on all teachers who make kids do homework, but because I want to teach future teachers to have a purpose behind their curriculum, to write work, assignment, tests, projects in a way that brings learning to new heights.
Disclaimer: I love Ms teacher, he has only been with her for 2 1/2 weeks and I haven't had the opportunity to spend as much time with her as I would like, but she is already doing an excellent job teaching him new things. This post is in no way directed at her. That night at the table merely spurred on another "moment" for me.
And yes, I make my boys do their homework, but we have revamped our evening schedule. Now they come in from school, get a snack, and play for 2 hours. Then we sit and do homework right before dinner. This allows them to play and get the pent up energy out before I ask them to sit and work. For the last 3 nights, homework has gone much more smoothly, and not lasted any more than 30 minutes, and been done with a cheerful heart and attitude. :) YEA